Psychology-based self-assessment
Understand how you love, connect, and protect yourself.
Relationships, attention, perception, how two people fit together — each assessment turns a pattern you half-sense into something you can actually see, and work with. Start with whichever one you keep wondering about.
Choose your assessment
Attachment Style
20 items · 4 dimensions · ~6 min
Discover your dominant pattern in close relationships — Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Fearful — including blends and your attachment constellation.
Couple Compatibility
20 items · 5 dimensions · ~10 min for two
Both partners answer the same 20 statements independently — see where you're in sync, where the real gaps live, and what your relationship constellation reveals.
Neurodiversity Spectrum
20 items · 5 dimensions · ~6 min
Map how your attention, energy, senses, social wiring, and pattern-seeking actually shape your daily experience — with your trait constellation.
Bundle
All Three Assessments
Take every assessment — attachment, couple compatibility, and neurodiversity — and keep each personalized report.
- Attachment Style Test$14.99
- Couple Compatibility Test$19.99
- Neurodiversity Spectrum Test$14.99
How it works
01
Answer honestly
Twenty short statements, rated on a simple 1–5 scale. There are no right answers — just honest ones.
02
See your scores
Your answers are scored across every dimension the assessment measures — including blends, because most of us aren’t pure types.
03
Read your report
A personalized, AI-written report walks through your profile, your strengths, your watch-outs, and one practice to start with.
How the tests are built
Grounded in established models, not guesswork
Each assessment maps onto a recognised framework rather than a made-up quiz: the four-category model of adult attachment (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991), spectrum-style trait dimensions for neurodivergent experience, and dyadic relationship dimensions for couples. Every statement is scored transparently, and blends are named rather than forced into a single box.
Like all self-report instruments, they reflect your perception of your patterns rather than a clinical verdict. Everything here is designed for education and self-reflection — a mirror, not a diagnosis.
Frequently asked questions
Which test should I start with?
They answer different questions, so start with whichever one you keep wondering about. The attachment test looks at how you seek and handle closeness; the neurodiversity test maps how your attention, energy, senses, social wiring, and depth meet everyday life; the couple test compares two partners' patterns side by side. Each is complete on its own, and you can take more than one.
How do I get my test after buying on Etsy?
Your purchase unlocks the online assessment — there's no separate code to redeem. Open the unlock page and enter your Etsy order number plus the email you used at checkout, and your browser keeps the test available for about a year.
What exactly do I get?
A short online assessment (about 20 statements) and a personalized, AI-written report — around 18–20 pages — built from your own answers and ready the moment you finish. Everything is digital: nothing ships, and there's no app to install.
Is this a diagnosis or therapy?
No. These are educational self-reflection tools, not clinical instruments. They can't diagnose any condition and they don't replace a qualified professional — a mirror, not a diagnosis.
Do I need an account?
No. Taking a test needs no account. An optional, passwordless account exists only if you want your reports saved so you can come back to them later.
A few minutes from now, you could see a pattern more clearly.
No account needed. Your answers stay in your browser — you just get the report.
Choose your assessment